On Sunday we continued with our series on discipleship from The Sermon on the Mount. This week we see that Jesus wants to teach us how to use our words. Previously, we have seen that Jesus taught,
“Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfil them…Therefore anyone who sets aside one of the least of these commands and teaches others accordingly will be called least in the kingdom of heaven, but whoever practices and teaches these commands will be called great in the kingdom of heaven.” (Matthew 5:17-19)
Christians are to ‘fulfil’, ‘teach’ and ‘practice’ what the Old Testament teaches. This has great bearing on our use of words. The Ninth Commandment teaches,
“You shall not give false testimony against your neighbour.” (Exodus 20:16)
We are never to slander people. We must avoid all gossip. Of course, everyone has failed beyond all that we know and deserve God’s wrath! However, so have you! We don’t have the right to spread other’s failures for our own strangely satisfying pleasure. Proverbs has much to say on this,
‘Without wood a fire goes out; without a gossip a quarrel dies down…The words of a gossip are like choice morsels; they go down to the inmost parts.’ (Proverbs 26:20, 22)
RESPONSE
The way that we use words reveals our understanding of the gospel. If we are embittered and speak about how people have failed, it reveals that we are not enjoying God’s grace and forgiveness as we should.
Of course, there are occasions when we seek advice on how to deal with the sin of another, but that is purposeful and has godly motives.
We must avoid being ‘graffiti artists’ who indelibly stain the character of others.
COMMUNITY GROUP STUDY - SPEAK ON TARGET
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On Sunday we continued with our series on discipleship from The Sermon on the Mount. This week we see that Jesus wants to teach us how to use our words.
Words are very powerful. Words lead to right or wrong thinking. Words lead to salvation or damnation. Words lead to health or corruption. Words lead to love or division...
Earlier in this series, we saw that Christians are ‘the salt of the earth’ (Matt. 5:13) and ‘the light of the world’ (Matt. 5:14). This has a massive bearing on how we use words. Jesus taught,
“Again, you have heard that it was said to the people long ago, ‘Do not break your oath, but fulfil to the Lord the vows you have made.’ But I tell you, do not swear an oath at all: either by heaven, for it is God’s throne; or by the earth, for it is his footstool; or by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the Great King. And do not swear by your head, for you cannot make even one hair white or black. All you need to say is simply ‘Yes’ or ‘No’; anything beyond this comes from the evil one.’ (Matthew 5:33-37)
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