On Sunday we continued with our series on discipleship from The Sermon on the Mount. This week we see that Jesus wants to teach us how to use our words. Jesus was confronting a culture in which telling the truth was optional. Against this He taught,
“All you need to say is simply ‘Yes’ or ‘No’; anything beyond this comes from the evil one.”(Matthew 5:33-37).
For Christians, our word is our bond. We do the thing.. turn up…give the thing…we are dependable because we are bound to our word.
However, we don’t just speak honestly, we also speak ‘the truth’ - we speak in alignment with God’s word. Paul wrote,
‘In the presence of God and of Christ Jesus, who will judge the living and the dead, and in view of his appearing and his kingdom, I give you this charge: Preach the word; be prepared in season and out of season; correct, rebuke and encourage—with great patience and careful instruction. For the time will come when people will not put up with sound doctrine. Instead, to suit their own desires, they will gather around them a great number of teachers to say what their itching ears want to hear. They will turn their ears away from the truth and turn aside to myths. …’ (2 Timothy 4:1-4)
i) Preach the word
We may not all ‘preach’ but we are all to speak biblical truth in our everyday lives. Our conversations in and outside the church are to be pervaded with Gods’ truth,
‘Be wise in the way you act toward outsiders; make the most of every opportunity. Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.’ (Colossians 3:5-6)
May our non-Christian friends hear the goodness and compassion of God in the way that we speak.
ii) Correct, rebuke and encourage
Our words are also to correct, rebuke and encourage. Sometimes we have to challenge people when we believe that their behaviour is not in line with biblical standards or is harming themselves or others.
iii) With great patience
We are to keep on trying to help people with our words even when they seem to be like water off a duck’s back. We must do all we can not to fall into the trap of angry outbursts or passive-aggressive silence because people are not listening as we'd of hoped!
RESPONSE - CAREFUL INSTRUCTION
Paul ends by urging us to persevere in giving ‘careful instruction’. The application of this scripture needs to be adapted to your own relationships. But be sure of this, whether you are a Community Group Leader, a parent, a friend, talking to a work colleague... we can only give out what we’ve put in! Let’s be ‘carefully instructed’ so we can use our words for the good of others.
COMMUNITY GROUP STUDY - SPEAK ON TARGET
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On Sunday we continued with our series on discipleship from The Sermon on the Mount. This week we see that Jesus wants to teach us how to use our words.
Words are very powerful. Words lead to right or wrong thinking. Words lead to salvation or damnation. Words lead to health or corruption. Words lead to love or division...
Earlier in this series, we saw that Christians are ‘the salt of the earth’ (Matt. 5:13) and ‘the light of the world’ (Matt. 5:14). This has a massive bearing on how we use words. Jesus taught,
“Again, you have heard that it was said to the people long ago, ‘Do not break your oath, but fulfil to the Lord the vows you have made.’ But I tell you, do not swear an oath at all: either by heaven, for it is God’s throne; or by the earth, for it is his footstool; or by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the Great King. And do not swear by your head, for you cannot make even one hair white or black. All you need to say is simply ‘Yes’ or ‘No’; anything beyond this comes from the evil one.’ (Matthew 5:33-37)